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Monday, April 09, 2012

Pump Up Your Book Blog Tour: Guest Blogger Ashley Mackler-Paternostro + Kindle Gift Basket Giveaway!


We're excited to have a great guest here with us today. Ashley Mackler-Paternostro is the author of the literary fiction The Milestone Tapes and has been on tour with Pump Up Your Book since April 1 and will end her tour on May 25 but not before she gives readers a chance to win a colossal prize - a Kindle Gift Basket - which will include:

-1 Kindle (non-touch) wifi w/ special offers ($80.00)
-1 signed copy of The Milestone Tapes ($14.00)
-1 copy of Oh The Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss ($17.00)
-1 vial of lavender seeds ($6.00)
-1 bar of gardenia soap ($11.00)
-1 jar of Golden Raspberry Jam ($8.00)
-1 jar of dry ingredients & recipe of Jenna’s Blackberry Cobbler w/ recipe ($15.00)
-1 Japanese Glass fishing float ($20.00)
-1 set of note cards (6) with a “cassette tape” on front ($10.00)
-1 Amazon gift card ($10.00)

How's that for being a great prize???

But first, let's get to know Ashley and her book better!

Ashley Mackler-Paternostro was born in Naperville, Illinois, where she still lives with her husband Mark and their three dogs. A hairstylist by trade, Ashley will often say that some of the best stories she has ever heard were told to her while working behind the chair. A life long reader with an insatiable appetite for good books, she decided to merge her love of great stories — both told and written — into her own brand of story telling.

When she’s not being held captive in her home office by words, Ashley fancies herself a flea market hunter with a weakness for Japanese glass floats and repurposing vintage goods.

Her latest book is The Milestone Tapes.

Visit Ashley at www.ashleymacklerpaternostro.com.

ABOUT THE MILESTONE TAPES

Jenna Chamberland never wanted anything more than to be a wife and mother. That is, until she realized that her life was ending after a three-year battle against breast cancer. Now, all she really wants is more time.

With 4,320 hours left to live, Jenna worries for her loved ones and what she knows awaits them on the other side: Gabe will have to make the slip from husband to widower, left alone to raise their seven-year-old daughter; Mia will be forced to cope with life without her mother by her side. In a moment of reflection, Jenna decides to record a set of audiocassettes — The Milestone Tapes – leaving her voice behind as a legacy for her daughter.

Nine years later, Mia is a precocious sixteen-year-old and her life is changing all around, all she wants is her mother. Through the tapes, Jenna’s voice returns to teach Mia the magic of life, her words showing her daughter how to spread her wings and embrace the coming challenges with humor, grace and hope.

THE MILESTONE TAPES is the journey of love between a parent and child, and of the bonds that holds them when life no longer can.

Hold your horses, we're getting to the giveaway form but first Ashley has a few things to say about words...

Heal Yourself With Your Words

By Ashley Mackler-Paternostro

“For your born writer, nothing is so healing as the realization that he can come upon the right word” - Catherine Drinker Bowen

The truth: Life is not without pain. And in that pain, we learn lessons. Some are about strength, others about weakness. But, we learn ... we grow ... and we change.

When I was thirteen, in the late fall of 1997, my mother sat me down at the kitchen table to level a blow that would change my whole world, define my coming years, and alter the way I thought about things like life and the stability of home. Her words would essentially dash the bubble of innocence I had, until that point, survived in.

My loving, funny, overly involved, endlessly supportive mother, had cancer. Breast cancer, infiltrating ductal carcinoma. Her chances of survival were less than 60% -- she was stage three. The lump was the size of a baseball, nestled in the pocket of her left breast, hovering over her heart. She would begin treatment at the start of the year. Twelve rounds of chemotherapy, thirty-three radiation treatments, laser focused on pin-prick tattoos, and chemically induced anorexia...all to save her life. And then, a radical mastectomy which would not only steal her breast, but her lymph nodes, leaving her with lymphedema for the rest of her life -- that is what would wait for her on the other side of this disease.

I was a child when I sat down with her at the table that night...and when I stood up and walked away, I was suddenly an adult. I was immediately thrust into a grown-up world, where I would be told to face the mortality of my mother...to understand that life is no more than a temporary gift and that what is given, can also be taken away.

The following year was one of collecting and gathering for my mother and me. We spent hours discussing the nuances of relationships -- the one I’d have with myself and the sort I’d share with other people. She told me stories of her childhood; the wild, reckless things she had done, the men she dated, the way she felt about marriage and how much she loved my father, her hopes and her dreams for her daughters.

The irony...there was good in that period of sadness. I was able to the understand who my mother was as a human being and not just love the woman who raised me...but even with that, there was an ebbing undercurrent of pain.

I watched my sister, eight years old and scared to death, go through the motions of a new life that she couldn’t understand. In our new reality was a place where nothing made sense to her, where things like ‘cancer’ and ‘chemo’ became everyday considerations, where coughs were met with watchful eyes, where good days were few and greatly out numbered by the bad. And when I look back on it now, whatever I felt -- be it all the anger or frustration or fear -- it was never for me, or even my mom, it was for my sister.

Who would she grow up to be? What memories would she have? How would she move on not knowing what she could have known, had things been different. At thirteen, those questions kept me up at night.

Pain like that, when it’s pain bred from fear, you don’t outgrow. You don’t wake up one day with clarity, you never find a way to make sense of the senseless. You learn to live with it because what else can you do.

Well, as I have learned, you can write. Get it down on paper, give up the dark to the light, give your worries away with words and punctuation.

In the spring of 2011, I sat down to write the story that would become The Milestone Tapes. I called upon my thirteenth year, and I wrote every fear I had into the lives of my characters. I wrote from a place that had haunted me for fifteen years until suddenly, I wasn’t haunted any longer. And that peace came from knowing how the story ended.

Each word that flowed from the tips of my fingers answered unasked questions. With each new chapter, I moved a little bit further on. Until, after 100,000 words, I was whole and my novel was finished.

Telling the story of the Chamberland’s through pieces of my own personal journey, blurring the lines of real and fiction under the guise of being literary, was the greatest gift I could have ever given myself.

In the summer of 1998, my mother went into remission. Her hair grew back in curls -- twisted strands of red and grey. She looked different, and we were all different for having made it through. And this story, it’s ours. But, we are not alone.

Writing it down, letting your thoughts move the cursor, can be the greatest sort of therapy. You can give yourself unfettered permission to acknowledge your fears and address the pain, and in time you will notice, as you give the words away to the paper, you are giving your hurt away as well.

Thank you Ashley for your wonderful guest post! And now go fill out the form to get a chance to win this beautiful basket!




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2 comments:

  1. I want to win a Kindle ... just so I can carry around my beloved book collection wherever I go!

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  2. Honestly? I want to win a Kindle and this story sounds great!

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